Stevie and Kelli ~ You Are So Very Married! Wed On April 24, 2010 ~ The Sorrento Hotel, Seattle!

Stevie and Kelli ~ You did it! You are so very married!

More than 100 family and friends gathered for Stevie and Kelli's wedding ceremony atop the Sorrento Hotel. And the very slow hotel elevator only added to the fun and ambience of this day.

Kelli was absolutely smashing in her gown and accessories and as I told her new husband more than once, "Stevie, you are one lucky guy!"

Working together, we created a personalized wedding ceremony that included tributes to the couple's parents, special gifts to their parents, keepsake mementos created and exchanged by Stevie and Kelli during their ceremony...and humor. You could not have a wedding ceremony for this couple without humor!

Stevie and Kelli ~ congratulations!

Tony and Shannon Ihlen: A Rainy ~ Sunny ~ Windy ~ Rainbow Filled Wedding Day At Alderbrook Resort, Union, WA...

Tony and Shannon Ihlen

April 17, 2010 ~ Alderbrook Resort

Mother Nature was in full force during Tony and Shannon's wedding day. When I arrived at Alderbrook Resort for Tony and Shannon's 4:00 p.m. wedding ceremony, it was raining.

And within the next two hours, we had more rain, no rain, a little wind, sunshine - big sunshine! - and a rainbow. And then, a downpour!

50+ family and friends gathered for Tony and Shannon's waterside wedding at Alderbrook Resort this past Saturday and the weather just became a part of this couple's story. This was such a fun ceremony - Tony and Shannon share a great sense of humor and Tony's friend, Photographer Mike Tallman, had his running shoes on to capture the marvelous fun during the couple's vows and more.

And just after the ceremony completed, a rainbow - peaking through the clouds. The funny thing is that on this exact Saturday a year ago, I married Matt and Katie in the exact same location at Alderbrook and right after their ceremony, a rainbow!

Mike and Tiffany - thank you for the beautiful images from this ceremony - you captured this couple so beautifully! And Julie Noice - your staff at Alderbrook Resort is the very best!

Incorporating Hawaiian Customs, Rituals & Traditions Into Your Wedding Ceremony

When a couple incorporates rituals, themes or traditions from the Hawaiian tradition, this makes a wedding ceremony extra sweet.

As I move into this year, I find that four of my couples are weaving in Hawaiian pieces into their ceremonies. There are many ways to do this. Chip and Susanne were married recently at St. Paul's Church in Port Gamble and being that Chip has family and history from Hawaii, this couple exchanged leis at the beginning of their ceremony and also offered leis to family members.

Using the koa wood bowl for the blessing of the rings and ring exchange is also something that I'm writing into a few ceremonies that I am working on.

And here's what's true: if you'd like to incorporate Hawaiian tradition/ritual into your ceremony and don't have ties to the Hawaiian culture, "just do it!" A wedding ceremony is all about finding what resonates with your heart and Hawaiian marriage customs/traditions are beautiful in all ways.

It Was A "Wedding Weekend" At The Marvelous Hollywood Schoolhouse in Woodinville!

Sarah & Dan Whitford

March 27, 2010

Hollywood Schoolhouse

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Jesse & Kelly Havens

March 26, 2010

Hollywood Schoolhouse

Talk about synchronicity! I married two wonderful couples last weekend at the marvelous Hollywood Schoolhouse in Woodinville.

Jesse & Kelly were married on Friday evening and one of the sweet moments were the wishes and wisdom shared by both Fathers from the couple's Grandparents who could not travel for the evening.

Less than 24 hours later, I was back at The Hollywood Schoolhouse (yeah!) for Dan and Sarah's Saturday evening ceremony, featured in the photo above. I am quite sure Dan and Sarah's wonderful photographer, Brooke Hendricks, "got" the huge smiles on their faces during the ceremony - I'll also make a bet that one of these images will be a favorite from this day!

If you are seeking a sweet and wonderful venue for your wedding ceremony, please contact Manager Lori Reeder at The Hollywood Schoolhouse - she's one of the best in this business and will take very good care of you. Take a peak: http://www.hollywoodschoolhouse.com/

Hendricks Photography: www.hendricksphotography.com

Andre and Amanda's Beautiful March Wedding Day ~ The Pickering Barn, Issaquah, WA

Andre and Amanda

March 20, 2010

The Pickering Barn

Okay, just look at these sweet smiling faces!

Andre and Amanda are one of those young "it" couples. They met as teen-agers and have created a most remarkable, loving and compassionate relationship over the past six years. And for a big chunk of those years, this included a long-distance relationship.

In front of 200+ family and friends, Andre and Amanda exchanged their vows. A sweet moment in the ceremony for me was when little flower girl Nola walked down the aisle. I was fortunate to have married her parents, Mark and Meghan, a few years ago at Bastyr Chapel and if you know this couple, their little girl is going to be a dynamo in life!

Andre and Amanda - thank you for trusting me with your story. I left your ceremony with a little lilt in my step ~ it was fun to be back in my old neighborhood (Issaquah), where I lived for six years before moving to Bainbridge Island.

Children At A Wedding Ceremony ~ Unexpected Moments and Memories...

Kenneth & Robyn
Shilshole Bay Beach Club
Seattle, WA

Ken and Robyn's wedding ceremony on a March Saturday morning at Shilshole Bay Beach Club was blessed with incredible sunshine.

In front of 150 family and friends, Ken and Robyn exchanged vows and I'm hopeful their photographer was able to capture the huge smiles and meaningful glances they exchanged during their wedding ceremony!

Ken and Robyn worked to create an elegant yet casual ceremony and reception that was truly about family - there were children running around and this only added to the joy in room. Many wedding ceremonies I attend don't have children in attendance, particularly the evening ceremonies. It was meaningful for me to be reminded of how much fun children do have at a wedding and incorporating the little ones creates memories - although most often hugely unexpected moments/memories!

www.wedbyannemarie.com

FAQ To Annemarie "Why Do You Do This Work?" And The Answers Are....

Why do I do this work? It's interesting to me how often I am asked this question.

So, just for fun, here are a few answers:

~ I do this work because it keeps me humble. I am wildly curious about love - what brings a couple together, why two people are committing for life. And in this work, I get a front row seat to love and am grateful for each and every opportunity.

~ Because this work grows me. This work pushes me to work at a 'perfume' level - most of the time, I get there. On occasion, I don't. With each year of doing this work, I grow and "buff up" as an Officiant and Celebrant even more...

~ Because sometimes this work scares me. Yes, scares me. Weddings are big/huge. I take this work on as "big/huge." I am better at this work because I always feel the tension of a wedding - the gentle tension that I've got one shot to get things right. This tension works to makes me a better Celebrant and Officiant. And sometimes, the work is tough. Mostly, it is truly remarkable in all ways.

~ Mostly, I do this work because it's a perfect storm of my heart, talent, curiosity and just because it's darn fun!

Photo: Doug and Luanna right after their wedding on February 28th - The Willows Lodge!

The First Weekend Of March ~ A Big Wedding Weekend in Seattle!

March 6 & 7, 2010 ~ Ah, Love!

Wasn't the weather absolutely glorious this past week, especially on Saturday?

Bryce and Irene took me up on my "advice" and were married mid-week under a huge zillion year old tree in a "secret park" here in Seattle. Bryce's parents flew up from Florida for the event and the "friend paparazzi" were on hand to capture the event.

Congratulations to Robyn and Kenny married under great sunshine at the Shilshole Bay Beach Club and to Chris and Kriste' married at the Edgewater Hotel. It was a marvelous time at SODO Park on Saturday afternoon for Joe and Christine's wedding ceremony - tears, giggles, cheers - what a time!

I was deeply touched to join Colleen and Matt for their intimate ceremony with family and friends at a private home late Saturday evening. The story surrounding this couple's wedding pulls on the heart strings - Colleen and Matt, I wish you much peace and comfort in the days ahead and a very happy married life together.

And finally, on Sunday afternoon, I was at Kiana Lodge (near my home!) for Jackie and Jennifer's wedding extravaganza. Pam and Nancy at Kiana Lodge always do such a fantastic job for their couples and they went above and beyond to insure that this wedding day was sweet and magical in all ways.

www.wedbyannemarie.com
425 922 1325

Andrew and Vivian's Sunny Weekday Wedding At DeLille Cellars, Woodinville...

Andrew and Vivian Seelye ~ DeLille Cellars

February 22, 2010

It was such a sweet moment on Monday the 22nd for the family and friends of Andrew and Vivian, married at the wonderful DeLille Cellars in Woodinville.

I captured this photo of Andrew and Vivian just before their ceremony. It was a treat for me to work with this couple. Together, we created a warm and intimate ceremony that reflected Andrew and Vivian's values, backgrounds and loving relationship.

Andrew and Vivian - how blessed you are to have each other! As Andrew said in his vows, "little did I know that two years ago I would find this wonderful path with you, Vivian!" Andrew, I agree!

February Wedding Ceremonies in Seattle/Tacoma ~ Love Is In Bloom This February 2010!

John and Shelbie ~ February 2010

It was a wonderful weekend for three marvelous weddings! I was fortunate to marry two couples at The Willows Lodge on Friday the 19th - congratulations to Cathy and Stephen and Melissa and Jason! The Willows Lodge (www.willowslodge.com) is a marvelous venue for an intimate wedding ceremony and Jenn Wenman and her staff there are exceptional!

It was then down to Thorne Castle in Tacoma to share in Clint and Karen's wedding ceremony at "2:25 p.m." I was so grateful to share in this day and for good reason. Clint was in the hospital for 30+ days earlier this year with swine flu, including 17 days in a medical coma. I'm awaiting photos and will share when I receive them. It was a hugely emotional ceremony for all, me included. Talk about such a "happy factor" in the room - with huge kudos to the terrific medical staff at St. Clare Hospital/Tacoma!

And congratulations to John and Shelbie married on February 14th ~ I love this photo of this sweet couple just after they said "I do!"

The Blue Ribbon Cooking School Hosts Sean and Dawn's Wedding Ceremony ~ February 2010 ~ Seattle, WA!

A Quick "After The Ceremony" Smooch!

Sean & Dawn ~ February, 2010

What a treat it was for me to know Sean and Dawn Ryan and officiate their non-denominational wedding ceremony this past weekend!

Sean and Dawn held their ceremony and celebration at the Blue Ribbon Cooking School in Seattle. This is a fabulous venue for such an event and as always, Event Mangers, Vanessa and Amy, did a terrific job pulling together all details to insure a gorgeous evening for this sweet couple. And DJ Chris Graves, as always, was an absolutely "rockin' pleasure!" to work with.

Blue Ribbon Cooking Company: www.blueribboncooking.com

DJ Chris Graves: www.yoursong.com

A Walk Down Memory Lane With Kelly and Ryan ~ Featured Now On Seattle Style!

Kelly & Ryan ~ Villa Academy

www.seattlestyle.com/kellyandryan

Kelly and Ryan just made my afternoon! I married this marvelous couple last May at Villa Academy in Seattle and I just received a very sweet note from Kelly saying "hello!"

Kelly and Ryan's wedding was absolutely gorgeous and memorable in all ways ~ featured now on the Seattle Style wedding website. I invite you to take a peak at Kelly and Ryan's Wedding Day here!

Kelly & Ryan's Wedding Day

www.seattlestyle.com/kellyandryan

Islandwood on Bainbridge Island Hosted Steve and Gabe's Wedding Weekend ~ Kudos To Everyone!

Steve & Gabe ~ Islandwood/Bainbridge Island, WA January 30, 2010

Steve and Gabe were married at one of Bainbridge Island's treasures - Islandwood. Islandwood is now hosting seven weddings each year and Steve and Gabe were fortunate to be "wedding #2." Allyson, Jaime, Marla and the staff at Islandwood did an extraordinarily job in helping me to pull together this couple's Interfaith wedding ceremony. Olympia-based Photographer Andrea Latham (www.andrealathamphotography.com) created lifetime memories for our couple with exquisite photos.

There was so much joy in the room as Steve and Gabe were married under a hand-made Chuppah. Family and friends participated in the wedding ceremony and Steve and Gabe incorporated rituals and elements from their Jewish and Catholic traditions. In this work that I do, I love it when a couple creates a robust wedding ceremony that is full of sacred moments, gratitude, fun and joy.

The Marvelous John and Anri ~ Married At Home, Seattle Style!

Congratulations to John & Anri!

Anri has a sparkle to her that lights up a room with her grace, style and smarts. John is one of those "great guys" who flys under the radar doing amazing things in this world...including being a Father to four terrific children.

John and Anri were married at home with their closest family and friends at their side.

I love all weddings. I treasure small weddings.

Small and intimate weddings have a sweetness to them...a "cozy factor" that you can't replicate at a venue, near the water or elsewhere.

Perhaps I love the small home wedding because that was what my wonderful husband, Greg, and I chose for our wedding. Two couples we treasured (and still do!), our Officiant Tom, and our four dogs as our "back-up witnesses!"

And of course, a wedding isn't about the size of the guest list. It's about the heart of a ritual that celebrates two people choosing each other for life.

Happy February 1st!

Brian and Marjan's Persian & Jewish Wedding Ceremony At The Rainier Club - Joy And More Joy!

Brian and Marjan Disler ~ The Rainier Club

It was truly an honor for me to create and deliver Brian and Marjan's Inter-Faith wedding ceremony at The Ranier Club. Brian and Marjan live in New York City and took a leap of faith on the "marrying lady" in Seattle sight unseen! We worked together via email and phone to create and craft a beautiful ceremony that wove together the traditions and rituals from Marjan's Persian Heritage and Brian's Jewish Heritage.

Jen and Jody from www.jenandjody.com captured the true essence of this beautiful couple with lasting photo memories.

Brian and Marjan - "may your love be as difficult to break as it would be to put back together the pieces of this glass!" Mazel Tov!

An "Aloha" Wedding At The Willows Lodge - Congratulations to George & Kris!

George and Kris ~ The Willows Lodge ~ A Winter Wedding

The Spirit of Aloha! There was so much "Aloha" at George and Kris's Winter wedding at The Willows Lodge. So much love.

For their ceremony, George and Kris included a wide variety of personalized elements and pieces to include family and friends in the moment. Thinking back, there was so much and what stood out was the exchange of leis, warm words to family and parents, a "surprise" to open on a special wedding anniversary, a song by the Bride's Mother with a chorus of cousins and much more.

George and Kris - I wish you every happiness! And thank you to Alyssa of Alyssa Rose Photography for this gorgeous photo! www.alyssarosephotography.com

Annemarie

Having Worked With Dozens Of Wedding Photographers, Here's A Little Guidance From The "Wedding Front Line..."

Dustin & Erin ~ Alderbrook Resort, Waterside Fall '09

photo: the fabulous Jenny GG www.jennygg.com

I was visiting Photographer Jenny GG at her new Studio in Seattle yesterday and fell in love with a canvas portrait she had just completed of Dustin and Erin - it is an incredible shot of the bottom of their legs - wedding formal wear, bare feet on the Alderbrook Resort boat dock - very fun. And a perfect wall memento for this terrific couple whose wedding we fondly remember from this past October.

Each year, I work with dozens of photographers - many of whom I see more than twice. As one of the only "vendors" at a wedding on a wedding day, I have the remarkable opportunity to know these terrific guys/gals who take on the enormous task (and stressful) of capturing a wedding day.

If you are selecting and/or working with a wedding photographer this year, here are a few important pointers to keep in mind:

- Personality: Find a photographer or team whose personality you like. This is a big/huge job and finding a Photo God/Goddess whose approach to life is key in extracting those "once in a lifetime shots." In other words, if you are out-going and charismatic in personality, go with a photographer with a similar approach.

- Money: Yes, it costs a pretty penny (no matter what the budget) for a Photographer. And in my book, spend a little more to get the best Photographer possible - shave money from the cake, favors and flowers. Cake - a lot gets left behind at weddings. Favor: many get left at the reception. Flowers: what about giving each Bridesmaid a special/beautiful flower instead of a bouquet?

- Fun: Most of my couples want "happy wedding photos" - not the structure "line-ups" of years past. Work with your photographer to create a purposeful fun photo or two ahead of time - you'll love the result!

Forget The Perfect Wedding Ceremony - Let's Go For Synchronicity And Those "Unexpected Moments!

"An Unexpected & Sweet Ceremony Moment"
Diane & Fred

I'm fond of saying a wedding ceremony is a "one time shot." This is "Officiant speak" for the gentle tension I always feel going into a ceremony knowing I have "one shot" to get things right - meaning I can't give you a gift certificate for a "do over!"

And what I absolutely treasure about a ceremony is the synchronicity that seems to follow each couple I work with - i.e., the "unexpected moments."

During Fred and Diane's wedding ceremony, there were several including this shot captured by Joe and Jill (http://www.joejill.com/) that reflects Diane's joyful devotion to the handsome guy in front of her who was so enjoying their ceremony!

So, bring on those unexpected moments. Forget the "perfect wedding ceremony" - the wedding ceremony where everything is orchestrated and "perfect." I much prefer an enjoyable ceremony that is comfortable, real, romantic and with a dash of the unexpected!

The Mayflower Park Hotel - A Marvelous Place For A Wedding Ceremony & Celebration...

Kudos to Andrew Harris & The Mayflower Park!

www.mayflowerpark.com

In the spirit of gratitude, I want to share with you a widely known secret: The Mayflower Park Hotel in downtown Seattle is a gem of a place for a wedding ceremony and celebration.

If you are seeking a historic and memorable venue for a wedding celebration, contact Andrew Harris (Sales Catering Manager) at the Mayflower Park Hotel. Andrew is one of the region's best when it comes to taking care of a couple on their special day.

Over the years, I have enjoyed the privilege of officiating at The Mayflower Park Hotel and look forward to walking thru those front doors this coming year!

Dennis and Claire's Moonlight & Candles Wedding Ceremony At JM Cellars, Woodinville...

Dennis & Claire's Evening Wedding Ceremony

JM Cellars ~ Woodinville

photo: www.joejill.com

Oh, sometimes I just have too much fun at a wedding ceremony! I had the marvelous opportunity to marry Dennis and Claire at the fabulous new wedding venue, JM Cellars in Woodinville.

Things got a little dark before we all knew it. And most of the ceremony was done in the moonlight with what seemed to be a zillion candles all around. Being that we were at a winery, Dennis and Claire toasted their marriage within their ceremony with a special wine for the occasion - and thankfully, I navigated my way around this ritual in the moonlight and candles.

If you'd like to take a peak at Dennis and Claire's venue choice for their wedding, go to www.jmcellars.com - and ask for Peggy! My thanks to Joe and Jill Hein of http://www.joejill.com/ for getting some fabulous photos of this marvelous ceremony.

Chip and Susanne's "Sunny Day" December Wedding Ceremony At St. Paul's Church, Port Gamble...

Chip & Susanne ~ December 5, 2009

Photographer William Ceriale took this beautiful "just after the ceremony" shot on the steps of St. Paul's Church this past Saturday afternoon. Chip and Susanne were married in a sweet and intimate ceremony surrounded by family and friends.

In honor of Chip's Hawaiian heritage, the couple exchanged leis with a kiss, gave leis to their parents and also surprised Susanne's children with special words and the gift of a lei.

St. Paul's Church and Port Gamble is a favorite place of mine for a wedding ceremony. Julie McAfee and her staff do a tremendous job insuring the success of each wedding at St. Paul's Church and the Port Gamble Pavilion - take a peak at www.portgambleweddings.com

Chip and Susanne...I wish you much aloha!

Annemarie

William Ceriale Photography: www.weddingphotos4u.com

Fred and Diane Lee's Wedding Day at SODO Park...Compliments of Seattle Wedding Planner Michelle Engvall!

Dr. Fred & Diane Lee ~ SODO Park

photo: www.joejill.com

One of my favorite Wedding Planners, Michelle Engvall, just sent me a link to a posting on her blog showcasing one of my favorite couples of this past year - Dr. Fred and Diane Lee.

Like Michelle, I fell in love with Fred and Diane and was so honored to officiate their wedding ceremony at SODO Park. Michelle did a fabulous job detailing this magnificent wedding day - if you'd like to take a peak at everything done "right," please go to: http://tinyurl.com/ykg32ku

Zelda, "The Wedding Dog..."

I love Zelda. A big part of my life is working to rescue, rehabilitate and re-home death row dogs. And on days when rescue work seems overwhelming, I look at my Zelda calendar and take a deep breath and smile.

So, on this day, November 19th, I am thankful for Zelda.

I am thankful for a wonderful 2009 of amazing couples and beautiful wedding memories. I am thankful for my wonderful husband, Greg, and all he brings to my life. I adore our five special needs dogs and the courage they show us each day.

It's now time for a little rest and play. I'm excited about my holiday weddings and I am loving the engaged couples I am meeting with for next year - there is so much love all the way around!

A Lot Of Love ~ A Little Windex! Simon and Alice's Wedding at Olympic Sculpture Park

Simon & Alice ~ Olympic Sculpture Park

photo by: Fancy Fin Photography

Annemarie,

Simon and I have taken our time "returning to the real world" after two marvelous weeks in Bali!

Thank you so much for being a part of our big day. We felt that the end result was perfect. Even the Windex went off without a hitch! It was elegant, fun and very 'us.'

We've attached a photograph that we think is hilarious. Perhaps right after the Windex? Your expression is priceless!

Alice Burden & Simon Clark

With Gratitude ~ To My Wonderful Couples, Wedding Colleagues and Family & Friends...

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I am deeply grateful to the hundreds of people who gave me great support in KING 5 TV's Best of Western Washington contest this Fall!

What touched me most deeply were the 197 personal comments left ~ in many ways this was a trip down memory lane for me. It was amazing to hear from so many of my couples via email with personal updates - life is quite the ride!

I am so incredibly grateful each day for the amazing opportunity to do this work that I love so much. Thank you.

Annemarie

Dustin and Erin's Wedding Ceremony On An October Sunday At Alderbrook Resort!

Dustin Zerr & Erin Kross

Alderbrook Resort ~ October, 2009

I captured this sweet photo of Dustin and Erin immediately after their wedding ceremony last weekend at Alderbrook Resort. What a beautiful couple ~ what a beautiful wedding day!

Dustin and Erin exchanged their vows in a waterside tent surrounded by their family and friends. We had hankie moments, we had giggles, we had sacred moments and so much more.

Alderbrook Resort is a magnificent property for a wedding ceremony and celebration. Julie Noise, Mark Phelan and the team there is exceptional in every way!

Dustin and Erin - you must return to Alderbrook for every anniversary and celebrate your grand fortune in having found each other!

Brian and Marjan Disler's Inter-Faith Wedding Ceremony At Seattle's Rainier Club...

Brian and Marjan Disler

The Rainier Club

Brian and Marjan's beautiful Inter-faith wedding ceremony at The Rainier Club wove together tradition and ritual from the Jewish and Perisan traditions. Brian and Marjan worked with me to create a robust wedding ceremony that celebrated Marjan's Persian heritage and Brian's Jewish background.

Jen and Jody - www.jenandjody.com - were shooting family photos when I arrived to coordinate all pre-ceremony details. I fumbled for my camera in my bag and took this photo - and I like it! It shows Jen and Jody doing what they do so well and captured my happiness in the moment to be a part of such a magnificent ritual!

Giving Family and Friends "Elegant Jobs" At A Ceremony Sets The Stage For A Wonderful Celebration...

Dion & Jamie Spina ~ Pan Pacific Hotel

photo: http://www.mkippen.com/

I love many things about Dion and Jamie. One of the things that stood out for me on this couple's wedding day is how Dion and Jamie elegantly involved many of their family and friends into the pre-ceremony part of their wedding day.

For instance, they had young boys handing out programs at two doors and at the elevators.

A greeter was staged at the back of the ceremony area, welcoming guests.

The Bride's Father was an absolutely fabulous pre-ceremony coordinator - and probably a wedding planner in a previous life!

I could go on and on - and what is true is that people LOVED being a part of this couple's wedding day. When family and friends have appropriate jobs/tasks, they feel a true connection to the day.

A Very Fun And Uplifting Ceremony On A Sunny Friday Evening at Bothell's Monte Villa Farmhouse...

The "Funsy" Alan & Christina Garvin

Monte Villa Farmhouse '09

Okay, sometimes in this work, you've just gotta smile BIG. And smile I did on Alan and Christina's wedding day. Alan and Christina were married on a Friday evening at the Monte Villa Farmhouse - an idyllic evening in all ways.

What I truly appreciate about this couple is their generous and appreciative natures and how we worked to create a very fun and uplifting wedding ceremony - one that set the tone for the evening's celebration.

Alan and Christina - I wish you much, much happiness. I left your wedding with such a happy feeling in my heart... isn't the Monte Villa Farmhouse the most lovely venue in such a crazy "corporate" park?!

Krista and Derek's September Wedding Ceremony at Seattle's Volunteer Park...

Derek Murrah & Krista Greene Murrah

Volunteer Park, September 2009

The huge old true directly behind the Asian Art Museum will never be the same! Derek and Krista were married under this beautiful tree surrounded by their family and friends on a sunny and warm September '09 afternoon at the high hour of 3:00 p.m.

With personalized vows - sweet touches of humor - gratitude to family and friends and so much more, Derek and Krista celebrated their 10+ year relationship with elegance and simple style.

Derek and Krista - I am wishing that your marriage be as joyful as your 10+ year courtship!

website: http://www.wedbyannemarie.com/

phone: 425 922 1325

Roger and Kelly Huggins and Family! A Monte Villa Farmhouse Wedding...

Roger & Kelly Huggins And Girls!

I loved getting to know Roger and Kelly and working with them to create a sweet and memorable ceremony on one warm Thursday evening a few weeks ago at the marvelous Monte Villa Farmhouse in Bothell.

And take a look at their girls! The young lady on the left is Kelly's beautiful daughter (with a huge sense of style!) and on the right is the couple's sweet little one. Picture perfect!

Roger and Kelly - You are an inspiration for all of us and I wish you much love and happiness.

Get The Officiant "Outta There!" - Keeping The Focus On The Couple and NOT the Officiant!

Graham and Chrystal Comley

Snoqualmie Golf & Country Club, 2009

Okay, here is one of my pet peeves. A couple ties a bow around their wedding ceremony with a beautiful pronouncement and memorable kiss and the Officiant is crowding their special photo!

In this work that I do, I move around - sometimes a little, sometimes a lot - during a ceremony to keep the focus on the couple and their family and friends.

And one of the places you'll never see me is smack in the middle of a kiss. I love a pronouncement where the focus is fully on the couple, like the amazing photo of Graham and Chrystal above, without the Officiant in the photo.

I love being in wedding photos - just some more than others!

The wonderful photo above was taken by Paul Isop of www.studio6now.com

Your "Group Photo" - A Treasured Memento To Take From Your Wedding Ceremony...

Stuart and Nicole Roy

Novelty Hill Januik Winery

I can almost guarantee this group photo taken immediately after Stuart and Nicole's wedding ceremony at the marvelous Novelty Hill Januik Winery will become a treasured memento from their wedding day. This lovely image was taken by the fabulous duo team, John and Jenna, of http://www.jfkweddings.com/

I absolutely LOVE suggesting a group photo following a wedding ceremony. It gathers everyone around the couple and is a fun "first event" that sets a festive tone for the reception/celebration!

Bill and Lindy's Wonderful "I Do!" Wedding Ceremony At Kiana Lodge...

Bill & Lindy Fitting

August 30, 2009 ~ Kiana Lodge

"I Do!" How I love this couple!

Bill and Lindy were married in front of their family and friends in a late morning ceremony at Kiana Lodge this past Sunday. Yes, it was quite the morning, which included the Bainbridge - Seattle ferry crashing into Coleman dock! Thankfully, all of Bill and Lindy's guests were already at Kiana Lodge.

What I treasured about Lindy's participation in her wedding ceremony was her absolute joy in joining her life to Bill's. When Lindy replied, "I Do" - it was a festive, fun and drew alot of elegant laughter and smiles.

Joyful Photo: As you can tell from the marvelous and poignant photo above, captured by Wedding Photographer Extraordinaire, Kurt Smith (www.kurtsmithphotography.com), Lindy's "I Do" moment perfectly framed a beautiful and memorable ceremony!

Stuart and Nicole's Memorable Wedding Day At Novelty Hill Januik Winery...

Stuart and Nicole Roy

August 22, 2009 - Novelty Hill Januik Winery

You've gotta love Stuart and Nicole Roy! Not only is the couple meant to be together, they know how to throw a party! Stuart and Nicole celebrated their partnership with marriage this past Saturday evening at one of the newest and finest venues on the Eastside, Novelty Hill Januik Winery in Woodinville - www.noveltyhilljanuik.com

On-Site Event Manager, Emily, did a smashing job in helping me coordinate an elegant start to this couple's wedding ceremony and from what I could see of the reception set-up, it was definitely an evening for lifetime memories.

Stuart and Nicole, I agree - I hope we meet again, some place, some time!

Chris and Ann's Sweet Wedding Ceremony At The Magnificent Parson's Garden on Queen Anne Hill, Seattle...

Chris Hearne and Ann Pallesen

August 16, 2009 ~ Parson's Garden, Seattle

Wedding Photographer Sharlane Chase put it best to me on Chris and Ann's wedding day - what an elegant couple, what style!

I had the lovely opportunity to share in Chris and Ann's wedding ceremony at Parsons Garden's on Queen Anne Hill (one of my favorite places for a wedding ceremony in Seattle!) and on a beautiful Sunday afternoon at the hour of 2:00 p.m., Chris and Ann exchanged vows to the delight of their family and friends.

What did I take away from Chris and Ann? That the small touches in a wedding day are the big things - and they don't have to be expensive. For instance, you can't see it fully from the photo, but Ann's bouquet and flowers were stunning - simple, gorgeous and soft - I'm calling you, Ann, to get the name of your florist!

Celebrating Sean's Magnificent Spirit - Seattle Celebrant Sean Patrick O'Reilly

Sean's Last Wedding Ceremony ~ July 18, 2009

photo by: http://www.carolharroldphotography.com/

One of Seattle's finest Celebrants, Sean Patrick O'Reilly, unexpectedly passed away on July 22nd. When I got the call, I absolutely could not believe it. I was without words.

In so many ways, I looked up to Sean. I remember lunches and meetings in his offices where we shared "ceremony" stories and giggles (Sean was so full of joy). Sean created and delivered a wedding ceremony with the upmost care, spirit and personal touches.

As I work thru August, I am dedicating each wedding ceremony to Sean. Today, I am off to marry the marvelous Weston and Tanya at Gasworks Park and then will be at Parsons Garden for Ann and Chris's wedding ceremony.

Thank you, Sean. For giving me the opportunity to sit on the couch with you and share stories, to be inspired by the magic of your craft and for the laughter.

Graham and Chrystal's Wedding Ceremony - Bubbles, Bubbles And More Bubbles!

Graham and Chrystal Comley

Snoqualmie Golf & Country Club ~ August 7, 2009

Talk about kindred souls! Graham and Chrystal are one of those 'forever' couples that an Officiant remembers - gracious, deeply in love, grounded yet very fun and deeply appreciative of everyone and everything around them.

Graham and Chrystal were married this past Friday evening under a cloudy sky at the marvelous Snoqualmie Golf & Country Club. They capped off their wedding ceremony with an explosion of bubbles - i.e., bubbles everywhere at processional! I can't wait to see the processional photo from their wedding ceremony. Bubbles might be a simple "thing" but they are so festive, inexpensive and bring great joy as a couple moves into their reception.

A Wonderful Friday Evening Wedding At DeLille Cellars - Kudos to Scott and Heather!

Scott and Heather Neal

DeLille Cellars ~ July 31, 2009

Our Heather Neal is a true fashionista! You can't see the full effect from the wonderful photo above but Heather's wedding dress ensemble and accessories were absolutely smashing for her wedding day! Even Jen and Jody, our couple's wonderful photographers agreed with me and they have a "true eye" when it comes to beauty.

Not only did Heather walk down the aisle in grace and beauty, but I was touched by how Scott and Heather included Scott's daughter, Heather, into their wedding ceremony. Yes, it was "hot afternoon" and you could sweetly feel the warmth of love and joy among this couple's family and friends.

Congratulations to Parker and Amy Haley - Yes, Amy....Fairytales Do Come True!

Parker and Amy Haley ~ Custer, WA

August 1, 2009

Well, as I'm now fond of saying, Custer, Washington will never be the same after Parker and Amy's "Happily Ever After" Wedding Weekend Extravaganza this past Saturday, August 1st.

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Wedding Planner Stacy Kvam did an extraordinary job in bringing this couple's dream wedding to life. DJ Brian Dale was on hand to help insure the celebration was a resounding success.

And most of all, Parker and Amy's wedding ceremony was sweet, poignant and fun - including a "bee" up Amy's veil during the ceremony!

Parker and Amy - I wish you a blessed life together, wonderful adventures as you embark on your medical careers and my thought for you: "that on your wedding day, this is a day that you loved each other the least!"

Fred and Diane's "Same Day Edit" From the Fabulous Laura and Her Crew at Edit 1 Media!

Congratulations to Fred & Diane!

July 25, 2009 - Herban Feast, Seattle, WA

Take a peak at this fantastic "same day edit" shown at their ceremony during the evening....

www.edit1media.com/blog

PJ and Maegan's Memorable Destination Wedding Celebration At Kiana Lodge...

PJ and Maegan Wilkinson

Kiana Lodge ~ July 18, 2009

PJ drove 12 hours in treacherous Mid-west Winter weather to ask Maegan's parents for her hand in marriage. What I loved about PJ and Maegan is how they sweetly tied together the traditional and the contemporary to create a beautiful wedding ceremony and celebration at one of my favorite places on earth, Kiana Lodge.

As you can see from the photo taken by the wonderful Kurt Smith (www.kurtsmithphotography.com) moments after they began walking down the aisle, PJ and Maegan were elated to begin the new phase of their journey together as partners, buddies and loving husband and wife.

Congratulations PJ and Maegan!

Chris and Malia's Seattle Wedding Ceremony - The Gift of Generosity & Graciousness

Chris and Malia Pima

The Skansonia Ferry Boat

I was deeply touched to share in Chris and Malia's wedding ceremony. It was a marvelous 7:30 p.m. ceremony on board the historic Skanskonia Ferry Boat.

Simply put, Chris and Malia set the tone for their wedding day with generosity and graciousness. Chris was amazing in all ways as he took charge of so many day-of planning details for his Sweetheart. Malia's beautiful smile and generous nature welcomed guests and made each person around her feel that they were indeed one of the most important pieces of this wedding day.

Chris and Malia - thank you for giving me the lovely opportunity to know you and share in a part of your beautiful wedding day.

Annemarie

Rahn and Dawn's Seattle Wedding Extravaganza at Golden Gardens Park!

Rahn and Dawn Stolworthy

July 19, 2009 ~ Golden Gardens Park

Well, if there ever was a very fun and memorable ceremony, I put Rahn and Dawn's marvelous wedding at Golden Gardens Park at the top of my short list! And this remarkable couple took everything in stride with grace and humor - you've gotta love that!

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So, let's see...what were some of the elements and unexpected surprises to the Stolworthy's ceremony?

- lots of wind which made things very blustery and fun
- a train in the middle of the ceremony (toot! toot!)
- a microphone that wouldn't behave properly and finally did
- gorgeous wedding vows
- fabulous family and friends who took everything in stride
- no parking. Na da. Guests walked in from all over - it was a packed day for people at the park. And no complaints were heard.

The most wonderful Cheryl Jones from www.inaframe.com took this beautiful photo of Rahn and Dawn and captured yesterday's festivities.

Rahn and Dawn - I suggest a picnic at Golden Gardens every year on your anniversary and wish you much happiness together....

Tips for Planning a Large or Small Waterside Wedding Ceremony...

Jason and Anna's Wedding Ceremony ~ Hood Canal

photo: http://www.barbiehull.com/

If you are planning to have your wedding ceremony on a beach or very near the water, I invite you to take a few pointers from Jason and Anna's wedding ceremony...

- Not to short, not too long. Many waterside weddings have the grand fortune of good weather and like Jason and Anna, a very hot day. Work with your Officiant to insure the ceremony is just the right length so people are not baking in the sun!

- Pre-ceremony refreshments. Yes, your guests will hugely appreciate some lemonade or punch before the ceremony, particularly on a very hot day.

- Standing position. Work with your Officiant on how/where you will stand as a couple during your ceremony. This allowed Jason and Anna's photographer, Barbie Hull, to get some great photos and as usual, I moved around so the focus was truly on this couple.

- Use the beach/waterfront for a grand group photo. A waterside group photo is a marvelous "thank you" to include in your post-wedding note to guests.

Alex and Amy's Wedding Ceremony in Puyallup - at a "Hidden Gem" Of a Venue!

Alex and Amy Smithing

Blair Acres ~ Puyallup, Washington

This weekend, I had the remarkable privilege of being a part of Alex and Amy's wedding day at a most amazing venue in Puyallup, Blair Acres - http://www.blairacres.com/.

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From the moment I arrived at rehearsal to the moments of signing the documents immediately after the ceremony, all was easy, fun and sweet.

Alot of this was because of the love, generosity and kindness of Alex and Amy's parents and their immediate family. Amy's Mother, Sandi, set the tone for a peaceful and memorable day and everyone and everything fell into place.

Alex and Amy - I wish you much happiness together and thank you for the opportunity to share in your wedding ceremony!

Annemarie

Romero and Erin - Joyful, Fun, Moments of Solemn Gratitude and a Wedding Pooch!

Romero and Erin Zamora ~ 2009

Lake Union Cafe

I loved officiating Romero and Erin's wedding ceremony at the marvelous Lake Union Cafe. We worked together to create a traditional wedding ceremony with contemporary pieces and the "tying of the lasso" from Romero's Mexican tradition included both sets of parents in this beautiful ritual.

Jennifer of www.redfishphoto.com took this poignant photo of Romero and Erin outside of the Cafe, walking away for a few moments.

The Blending Of A Family - How Ceremony Ritual Can Create A Loving Memento For A New Family...

Paul & Kimberly ~ The Woodmark Hotel

When crafting and writing a wedding ceremony that includes a child or children, I'm very resourceful in how I create and incorporate a family ritual that is appropriate, loving and memorable.

In Paul and Kimberly's morning wedding ceremony at the Woodmark Hotel, Paul's girls helped our couple re-plant a "wedding tree" - complete with watering and scooping of the dirt (no, nobody got dirty!). Smaller children love a ritual that is tactile - meaning, they actually "do something." If you are incorporating a child or children into a ceremony, get creative and mark the moment with a ritual that is meaningful and memorable for your new family.