Weeks ago, my small animal rescue network rescued Clarence and Claire, two cocker spaniels who had been chained up in a backyard for TEN years in Eastern Washington. After much negotiation, these dogs were finally released from their horrible living situation and came to us. As brother and sister, Clarence and Claire had been living in a tiny and confined space for their entire lives. And despite their adversity and hardship, they are thriving in their foster home on Vashon Island, waiting to be adopted together to a loving and forever home.As I look at Clarence and Claire, I see great perseverance and devotion. They absolutely adore one another and despite what they have been through, they shine with joy and courage.
On occasion, I have the honor of marrying a couple who has been together through challenge and adversity. Much like the couple I married unexpectedly last week here at a park on Bainbridge Island because orders just came through for the groom to ship to Iraq. Or perhaps the wonderful groom who just lost his beloved father a week before his April wedding ceremony to his Sweetheart - and was wearing his heart on his sleeve on his wedding day in more ways than one.
Yes, a wedding is joyful and lovely. And it is fraught with what we call "life." I am so honored to be a part of facilitating a ritual that is hopeful, celebratory and joyful - much like Clarence and Claire.
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